Signs That Your Marriage Is In Jeopardy

1. When you find talking to your spouse is harder than talking to a stranger.

2. When you find it more enjoyable talking your heart out with someone else, preferably friends of the opposite gender.

3. When you find masturbating is more enjoyable than sex itself.

4. When you feel like sleeping with a stranger when you are sleeping with your spouse.

5. When you rather sleep on the floor or in the living room than to sleep with your spouse.

6. When your children are the only thing that matters to you.

7. When you constantly think about your spouse's flaws.

8. When you no longer see eye to eye and constantly find faults with your spouse.

9. When you secretly think of having an affair with another person.

10. When you dread of going home after work.

I often ponder on one question. How could a marriage break when both husband and wife love each other dearly before they signed the papers? (except the arranged marriage of course) Are people nowadays harder to please therefore the divorce rate these days are higher than those in the previous generation. We've our grandparents celebrating their 50th, 70th and some to the 90th wedding anniversary but how many of the younger generations these days are able to maintain their marriage until this long?

For me, the appearance of a third party in the marriage is the major cause of divorce. I really hate it when girls who obviously knew that the guy they are with are married but still refused to let go because of their selfishness. And some of these husband snatchers are pretty young girls that have a lot of guys going after them. But why? Why of all men in the world they have to choose someone who is married?

They say. "Married Men Are More Charming" But excuse me, before they were married, they were also singles men. Why don't they marry the single guys and make them charming?

Other than that, I despised married men who have close relationship with their female friends without any boundaries. These men are really selfish beast that never think about the feelings of his wife. And some go to the extend of being there for his "female friend" everytime she's having a problem. Hello, you are just a friend no matter how close you two are. If you wanna be so nice to her, why don't you just marry her instead in the first place?

And yeah, I ponder upon this question too. "Why men tie themselves into a marriage when they still wanna fool around?"

Can someone answer me?

P/S: I'm not generalizing yah. I'm just writing it as a woman. If you are a man reading this, change the word "men" to "women".

Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, a day where all couples celebrate their love. But in my opinion, everyone should celebrate their love everyday and not just on this particular day. I bet most of you out there think of the same thing too.

And it is stupid for guys to buy flowers for the girlfriends on this day where you knew that the florist is gonna suck your blood by charging a super high price on the flowers. You could really save the money and buy flowers on ordinary days instead. It will make it even more special to your girlfriend, just don't tell her you do this because you don't wanna have your blood suck by the florist. Hahahaha..

Happy Valentine's Day ♥