Abortion

*I'm not in the mood to blog about my Kerachut trip because it's been toooo long lerr.. So, if you want to see pictures taken from that trip, pls go to --> http://picasaweb.google.com/fwlsw08/PantaiKerachut



a-bor-tion : the removal of an embryo or fetus from the uterus in order to end a pregnancy
(http://dictionary.reference.com/)

What do you think of it? Some say it's a sin, it's absolutely immoral, the baby is innocent, the adult should be punished for doing it and some say that abortion should be legalised. Some even say that, anyone who have the idea or even think about it, should send to hell when dead, and prisoned when alive. O_O

I was browsing through in net the other where I came across this --> Should abortion be legalised in Malaysia? I've then popped the same question in ShoutOut to see what are the shouters view and opinions about abortion. After that, I popped the same question to my best friend when she came over to my house the other night and she too got a lot to say about abortion. So I thought why not I blog about it since I think this topic is pretty informational.

Abortion process is still an illegal act in Malaysia except for some special case where the pregnancy harm the mother's health. Other than that, one can be jailed if she's caught aborting the baby. But from what I've told, the clinics that do illegal abortion are everywhere right now. In fact, you can just easily get rid of the pregnancy by paying something like RM 400-RM 700 and the process is done in just a few hours. Some even promised that it wont hurt a bit and it wont leave scars. Or you have to do is bring over the money and I.C and they'll kautim (settle) everything else for you.


After a looong conversations with all my friends, I still think that abortion should be legalised but it depends on the scenario. Why?


1) Some couples were blamed for not taking the necessary steps to protect themselves from having a baby. But what if they did? Wat if, after all the precautions, they still ending up with pregnancy and not ready to settle down yet? Like the condom got holes in it or something wrong with the Pills. Let say the couples are only 18-22 years old? They are not financially stable and this baby will only ruin their future?


2) What about raped victims? And those betrayed and drugged by someone they trusted. In some cases, girls were drugged without knowing who did it. They are just as innocent as the baby.


So in such circumstances, I think they should be allowed to get rid of it LEGALLY.


But NEVER put abortion as your first option if you have other choice because it will still ruined your life even after you did it. Abortion will only leads to un-imaginable side effects, both on mental and physical in long term. (You might not be able to conceive pregnancy after doing it!) Abortion is definitely not a easy way out of this problem.. It's NOT! It'll only bring you more trouble in the future if you think of it in a long term. And if you are really pregnant, be grateful instead of hate. And think of it as a gift from God and not punishment and you'll feel better.


Be responsible, love your body and say TAK NAK to pre-marital sex. (if possible)

P/S: I would like to thank Anna, Lasker, Janice and Mason for your opinions and views on this topic. =)

About Me

Im SaeWei, a girl from Penang (or some say Land Of Char Koay Teow) who is now living happily ever after in the capital city of Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur.

Like most of the bloggers out there, my blog serves as a place for me to rant, to complaint and to write whatever things that I want so that I can look back at it 20 years later and have a laugh at it.

As I've said, most of my writings are done impulsively, meaning, no drafting are done and most of the angry post are written when I'm feeling all pissed so don't be surprise to see a lot of scoldings, critisizings and a lot of harsh sentences. So if you feel insulted over the things that I've wrote, you are always welcome to exit from my blog because I seriously do not give a damn. But for those who enjoyed reading what I wrote, you are always welcome to come back for more.

But after giving birth to my first child, I kinda wanted to turn my blog into a more mature blog where I write more about lovey dovey relationship stuffs, marriae, parenting and children. I'm still learning how to become a better wife and parents and I hope that whatever

hat I've written would come in handy one day when you need it.

So that's all about now. Thank you guys for all your support. ;)

You can e-mail me at --->
saewei@gmail.com

Coming Soon.......

Guillermo Vargas Habacuc, The "Artist" Who Kills In The Name Of Art

I received an email from Vingie and was totally saddened by the news. Haih~

This is what had happened...

A year ago, a totally so=called "artist" (shit!) named, Guillermo Vargas Habacuc (click HERE if you wanna who this @$$h0l3 is) had taken a dog from the street. And guessed what he did? He tied the poor doggie to a rope in the art gallery and just let the poor thing starve to death in there. And people even came in to see his so-called masterpiece based on the "dog's agony, until eventually he died."

And this is what the @$$h0l3 said after he found that a lot of people from around the world had been signing petition to go against what he did:

My name is Guillermo Habacuc Vargas. I am 50 years old and an artist. Recently, I have been critisized for my work titled "Eres lo que lees", which features a dog named Nativity. The purpose of the work was not to cause any type of infliction on the poor, innocent creature, but rather to illustrate a point. In my home city of San Jose, Costa Rica, tens of thousands of stray dogs starve and die of illness each year in the streets and no one pays them a second thought.

WHAT THE FISH! It doesn't mean that you have the right to do this to an innocent doggie. Even if he starves as a stray at least the poor dog still has freedom you F***! You are really sick!

As if this wasn't sick enough... some other @$$h0l3s trully loved this piece of masterpiece and actually invited this @$$h0l3 to repeat the same "masterpiece" in 2008!

We must really STOP this before another dog is killed by this @$$h0l3.

To help stop this cruelty, pls click on the following links and sign the petition to stop this inhuman @$$h0l3!

http://www.petitiononline.com/ea6gk/petition-sign.html

http://www.petitiononline.com/13031953/petition.html

Pleaseee pleasee pleasee do it okay~

You just need to write your name, email address and the things that you would like to say. As easy as that.

And if you wanna know further on what's happening, please visit...

http://guillermohabacucvargas.blogspot.com/

5 Spices Chicken

Ahem..... The CHEF is gonna make her first atempt to cook her first 5 SPICES CHICKEN!!!! Whoa whoa!!!!!! XD

The ingredients... OVERWEIGHT CHICKEN (Satkuru's favorite), the pien pien (instant) mix :P, mushrooms and garlic! ^_^V

And the end results.....

TADAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Look nice but taste a bit weird... Not to say it's not nice okk.... But it's just weird spices flavour... heeheeheeee.... Who wanna be my guinea pig this time????

P/S: I also didn't end up spending the night in the toilet after eating this ok :P

OMG!!!!! I'm cooking two types of chicken dish in A WEEK.. Another chicken and I'm gonna end up turning into ONE... ><

GEM Talking

Go to The Star Online for the full story.

Whether Mr. Lim is naive or ignorant or whatever thing that the GEMs wanna call him, it's totally up to US to decide because we voted for HIM!

And Mr. Lim, whatever you do,

You have my 100% SUPPORT!

The Love-Hate Thing

A good friend [you know who you are ;)] once told me that in a relationship, it's only normal to have arguments, disagreements and of course some misunderstandings. Guess what, these are the things that strengthened a relationship, be it with your boyfriend, family or friends.

But after an argument, try to chill your mind or stay away from each other until both of you cool down and then sort out the problems. You'll feel much better after that. NEVER keep all the angry feelings to yourself because you might end up HATING that person. When you hate a person you wouldn't want to speak to him/her ever... And in the end, you'll end up NOT TALKING to him/her ever! YOu don't want that to happen because you'll at risk of losing someone you loved dearly...

Each time I argue with someone, I'll remind myself the same thing because I don't wanna lose anyone in my life although sometimes I really "beh tahan" (cannot stand) things that he/she does. But it's better to "beh tahan" and try to avoid him/her than to lose him/her as friend forever... =)

It's easy to make enemies, but it's hard to find a true friend.

BIG ANNOUNCEMENT

I GOT A BIG ANNOUNCEMENT TO MAKE!

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I'VE CUT MY HAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P/S: Me is recently having *EP Syndrome so please excuse me if you can't take it ok. Sorry~

*EP --> Extreme Perasaness

Happy Mother's Day

To all the mommies and mommies to be out there........

And to my mom, she may had done the meanest thing ever, nags like there's no tomorrow, treated me like I'm forever 2 years old, etc. But you are still the best mom ever... Because if it's not because of your endless nags, I might not be who I am today~ And I might not be able to to achieve something so BIG like cooking the chicken curry succesfully~

hahahahahaa....

I love you mom....

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My First Chicken Curry ^_^V

Weeee!!!! Cooking chicken curry is like one of the BIG ACHIEVEMENT in my life cann~~~~ Never in my life i've cook this on my own! TOTALLY on my own!

I feel so PROUD CANN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The ingredients......

Pien pien (instant) curry paste~ chickens~milk to replace coconut milk~ POTATOES! My mommy owas totally potong stim. I got her to buy me 2 potatoes and yeah she bought 2 potatoes but it was two GIANT SIZE potatoes.. -_-" So the whole dish is like POTATO CURRY instead.. Potong stimmmmmmmmmmm larrr~~~~~

The end results!

Weeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It tasted not bad... At least it's edible and got the chicken curry flavor loh.. What do you expect from a first timer lerrrr???

Tropical Spice Garden

This is really a place where you should come if you wanna find out what does the herbs and spices that your mother used to cook curry chicken looks like! Like everywhere you walk, there's spices everywhere from lemongrass, flowers, tongkat ALI, bananas.. everything!

Special thank yous to Emily for the discount ;) and for bringing us around.. And the SWING!!!!!!

The Entrance~

More photos from the garden... I'm very de lazy to describe the photos... I dun even know how to describe it as most of it are flowers flowers and more flowersss... -_-"

And finally US~ ♥

My 23rd Birthday

Yay!!!! I'm 23 already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Old enough to go into the casino! Old enough to watch X-rated movies! Old enough to kahwin! Old enough to become a mommy! XD Yeah it's goood to be oldddddd :P

And it's goood to spend the once a year day with your buddies ohhhh.... It's reeeeallly goooddd...

And this year, I celebrated this special day a little differently~ From Japanese food to capalang photoshoooting to the beach clowing bubbles to watching the beautiful sunset and beers and to KFC at home. ♥

Sorry guys for making you wait at the road side for almost an hour oh... >.<

I feel like a celebrity at this point.. With cameras flashing and a "bodyguard" walking behind... Heeheeeeheeeheeeee..Weeeee... I love love love the cameras!!!!! And I love the bodyguard too.. :whistle:

In Nippon Yataimura or something something... We spent like soooo looooong deciding what to eat... The foods are okay loh... But still.. Nothing beats my Sakae Sushis... XD

And who can resist to take a photos in front of the restaurant with an "obscene" thingy above your head huh??? LOL

Then we were off to the Tropical Spice Garden and camwhored like mad!!!! It was so much fun!!!!!

This is the place where Charleskey, JJ and Emily got raped by the fish.. Poor Fish~ The rest of us are animal-loving peoples so we were just posing with our feet on top of the water... XD

FAMILY PHOTO! ♥

Then we went to the beach rite in front of the garden to take more photos... Thanks Elise for the bubbles bottle... I feel like 10 years younger when I blew the bubblessss.... Heeheee~

After that, we went to a reallllly cool place!!!! the Sunset Beach Bar & Bistro.... The place is so happening!!!! So many beach bums, bikini girls, horses, guys in shorts, sands and the best thing of all is the beautiful SUNSET! It's so beautiful that I was too mesmerized by it and had forgotten to whip out my camera to take the photo.. Cissssss! I no care!!! I wanna go to that place again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A beautiful photo taken at the beach... Niceee kan~

Thank you so much guys for the wonderful day of outings... Thanks for the presents.. :) And thanks a lot of the wishes.... Appreciated each and every one of it a lot.. Muaaccksss...

Thank you for the 8 hours drive to Penang and back to KL just to celebrate my birthday together for the first time.. =) I can't wait for the second one..

Your love is the bestest present that I've ever receive in my life..

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Happy Birthday To Anna, DAFUNI, Erlynda and Mae yah!!!!!

OMG FOUR BABIES poot out in one day!!!! XD